How to Attract More Into Your Life:3 Things You Can Do--Right Now

We all want to feel loved and have someone in our life who understands us. But, sometimes it can be hard to attract the people we want into our lives. If you’re struggling to find the love of your life or a friend for the weekend, these three steps will help you get what you want:

1) Find out where they are.

2) Start going there.

3) Be open to meeting them where you are.

Step 1: Find out where they are. Often, we don't even know where to start looking for love or friendship. Think of the places that you go every day: work, school, the post office, etc. What places would you be comfortable meeting people?

Let's say your ideal love life was waiting for you at the gym. Do you go there? If not, maybe it's time for a change. Schedule time on your calendar specifically to go workout at the gym and try to meet someone there who might like you back. But remember...

Step 2: Start going there. It won't do you any good to know where love is if you're not going to try to find it. You have to get out of your comfort zone in order to really meet someone new. After you've decided where you are willing to go, it's time for step two: actually go there.

Step 3: Be open to meeting them where you are. You may be running into the love of your life in your neighborhood or at work every day, but if you're not paying attention and open for love, then you most likely will miss them. Be open and aware of who comes into your life. If you notice that you're starting to see the same person often, then maybe they are someone you want and or need in your life.

When it comes to meeting and attracting new people into your life, it is a mind-set. Think about where the people are that you want in your life. If those aren't the places you generally go, then make an effort to change up your routine and start going there more often. Be open, be aware, and be willing to meet new people wherever they might be. You never know where love will come from...

Remember, you can't truly be happy or fulfilled until you attract what you want into your life. For more help in finding love, read "I Don't Want to Meet Anyone But My Self".

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About the Author:

Elizabeth Gabler is a licensed psychotherapist and author of "I Don't Want To Meet Anyone But My Self." She works with individuals and couples to explore the ways their lives are out of balance and to find clarity on how they can meet their true desires. Through EFT, she helps clients identify what issues are holding them back from happiness and ease their discomfort in order to move forward. Elizabeth currently serves as a board member for her local Emotional Freedom Technique Association chapter.

To view Elizabeth's article on attracting more into your life, click here .

To read more from Elizabeth, you can visit her at http://www.elizabeth-gabler.com/ .

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Author:

Kari Pullen writes a blog to help married couples discover how and why they are in a rut and what to do about it together. This is her first book and she is currently working on a second one, "Take My Heart". Check out her blog at the following link: http://kari-pullen.blogspot.com/

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Comments (41) - 11/17/2015 2:08 PM PST BY A READER

In love with someone who is unavailable?????????????

I am 63 yrs old and am I in love with my boss, he has left his wife and is living with his girlfriend. He still has kept me as his assistant. I can't help but think of him always. I don't know what to do ? Love How To Attract The Perfect Boyfriend By Kari Pullen

I just came across your site and it is great! I am in love with someone who is unavailable and I am so confused how to go about this. It is the most difficult situation for me because he has a girlfriend but still continues to have contact with me. People have offered to help me get him out of my life but I don't want them to do anything because it's a big mistake and he will not be happy about it. I don't know how to get him out of my life except by using this method. Please let me know how I can go about this or if there is a way to do this. Love How To Attract The Perfect Boyfriend By Kari Pullen

Hi, I'm terribly sorry to hear that you are not being able to attract the one you want. The method given on this website is very helpful, but it will take time before you see results, so hang in there and keep working at it. You know what I do to attract the right guy? I work really hard (get up at 6 AM, go out with friends, and stay up way past my bedtime). I set high standards for myself (and he) too. Good luck! Attracting The Right Guy By Kari Pullen

Thank you so much for sharing this article! It has really helped me open my eyes to what is going on. I have read so much about how to go out and get a boyfriend, what to wear, act like, etc. but nothing had helped me before. Reading the article has given me the tools I need to focus on what I want in a boyfriend and why I am not receiving it. All of the self love tips were also very helpful! Thank you again for this article! I really appreciate your time! Attracting The Right Guy By Kari Pullen

I have read many books on attraction and all are too general or lacking specifics such as "how" to start getting an attracted magnet going to draw the desired person into my life. Thank you for providing clear steps that mean something if one puts them into action.

Conclusion

Although I do not claim that the methods outlined in this article are infallible, I think you will agree that they have worked for myself and many other people. I have tried most of these techniques with some degree of success, but it is very important to combine them with persistence, time and effort.

If you think about it, there are actually many positive factors for attracting a relationship. People who accomplish this do often report an increase in self-confidence and quality of life. Those who work at attracting the right relationship may even find that their relationships become more fulfilling as time goes on .